men

one of my best buddies is in confinement. 3rd bb...so nothing unusual la...except that this time she really want to stick to all the berpantang dos n don'ts. (gud luck, babe!). but today, she complained something about his man. katanya, dear hubby tak nak tolong jg si kakak n abang, not helping around the house etc etc. kesian kawan aku....

which make me wonder......why men want kids? is it:

i) for having someone to inherit the harta benda?

ii) to show that they are manly enough?

iii) to show they r not barren?

iv) because married men have kids?

it makes me sick....seriously. the wife tu kan dah agree utk carry ur bb for 9 torturing months kan, so y not help out for @ least during the 44 days tu? susah sgt ke? aku geram betul la. tapi bila ke hulu ke hilir asik la belagak mengira berapa byk anak korang boleh buat...(actually god yg buat, bukan ko pun...u just carry the gun around je....hopefully the gun is a bazooka, bukan jenis pistol mainan).

kata la aku jeles...memang aku jeles pun. but having an army of kids doesnt justify ur role as a parent. ko penah dengar org lelaki mulut celupar mengalahkan pompuan? in my hubby situation it would sound kinda like this : "tembak tak sharp" or "aku dah sarjan (anak 3)..ko tu prebet lagi" or "kitaorg dah terbukti kejantanan" or "apa..peluru kapur ke"...can u imagine perasaan hubby aku???? dah ada anak, jantan sgt la tu? as if jaafar onn tu jantan sgt...:[. yg kelakar tu...masing2 muka tak sedar diri...ada yg jenis ngabiskan harta bini, segala brg kemas dilebur buat join MLM, ada yg jenis kawin dgn bini tu sbb terhutang budi n body, ada tu perasan hot padahal kulit cerah skit dan perut kecik skit je dpd mamak roti canai. they are so sick la. nasib baik cik abg tu kuat iman...kut tak mau bertumbuk. (sedih beb, mcm hina je kan childless married couple...).

hats off to the husbands yg berani berada di dapur dan menukar diapers. i wish more men like you are born in this worls. jgn first bb je dah la ye. to all the chauvinist pigs.....jgn perasan best la..ntah2' performance' ko tu setakat keta kancil je, tapi gebang as if bleh mengaum mcm ferrari.

to my friend : ' sabaq naaa...biar dia dosa dgn Tuhan, jgn ko dosa dgn laki.....'